Heartbreak is something we all have inevitably faced at some point in our lives. The death of a relationship is often as painful as an actual death. Yes, we are entitled to weep and mourn what was, but that’s exactly what we must realise-it WAS. It’s over and life goes on whether or not we want it to.
Each break up is different but how we choose to deal with it is up to us. We can either burn with hate and create our personal hell, or we can walk away with grace and dignity; choosing to remember the relationship for its good times.
Equipped with this new found ( although painful ) learning experience we can recognise similar patterns and behaviours and avoid making the same mistake again.
The most important thing to do after a break up is to have some ME time. Spend some time alone. Discover yourself and most importantly learn to love yourself. Loving other comes easily but we are often our harshest critics. Recognise your worth.
Learn to do what is right for you and what makes you happy, and soon you will come across a wonderful person who was just waiting to be found and cherished -YOU!
Don’t search for love, when the time is right the universe will send it your way. Wait for it. The right partner will build you up, make you feel blessed and will show you why it never worked with anyone else.
May you be blessed with the forever kind of love!
Written by Karishma R.K aka Phoenix Mode